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So you're curious about anal play? Well welcome! As you may already know, the anus has a high concentration of nerve endings that can create a lot of pleasure. Yes, whether you have a prostate or not! But like any physical activity, it's a good idea to warm up beforehand. That's why anal training exists. So let's begin…
What is anal training?
When exploring new areas during sex, anything can be considered a "safe zone." This is true as long as there is mutual consent and appropriate precautions are taken. To specifically explore the anus, it is crucial to start slowly. It is also very important to start small. According to the experts, "anal training is a process of exploring and strengthening the "back door" by gradually inserting larger objects into the rectum."
"ANAL TRAINING INCLUDES GETTING USED TO THE FEELING OF FULLNESS AND MOVEMENTS THAT COME WITH ANAL SEX."
There is no specific time frame for how long it will take you to prepare. But as long as you listen to your body and its sensations, you will find your own rhythm.
Some questions to consider when starting out may include:
Do I want to focus on sex toys?
Am I more comfortable doing it with a partner(s) while starting out or solo?
The answer to both of these questions is the same. It all depends on you and what feels comfortable for you. Our recommendation is to ask yourself these two questions and go from there.
Why is anal training important?
Unlike the vagina, the anus does not lubricate itself. This is because of the thinner tissue and greater sensitivity, the anus is actually quite tender. We strongly recommend using protection (condoms) and a generous amount of lubricant to prevent pain and STIs. Something to note: anal penetration becomes easier because you develop better control, not because you have a stretched anus. Practicing safe sex not only helps your health, but also increases pleasure. We strongly encourage you to avoid numbing creams and agents when having anal sex. It inhibits your body's natural response to pain and can lead to injury. As with anything else, listen and trust your body while enjoying your own limits. Relaxing physically and mentally while exploring allows you to enjoy the pleasure more holistically.
How to start anal training?
Start with a breathing exercise
Try to concentrate and turn off your thoughts. It helps you get into a more present, relaxed moment. Without mental noise in your head or stress, your body and mind will be in a better position to increase pleasure. It will also help you enjoy yourself, which at the end of the day is the goal. Plus, as you relax, so does the anus.
Use lubricants
Specifically for anal sex, finding a lubricant with a gel-like consistency helps create a better friction barrier. Such a one silicone lubricant it can potentially make things more enjoyable. Silicone lubricants last longer, but water-based lubricants are more compatible with materials used in sex toys. It all depends on your preferences! Be sure to apply a generous amount to the inside and outside area, as well as any sex toys or parts you choose to use during penetration.
Breathe and relax
When you're using muscles you're not used to using, you're going to have to do things you're not used to doing. It starts with simply getting your anus used to receiving penetration. This can be done with or without sex toys. Starting with something as small as a clean finger or a beginner sex toy can help familiarize your body with the new sensation. Relax the muscles and continue this until the sensation becomes more familiar. By relaxing, it is easier to indulge in this movement.
Once you get used to this feeling and sensation, you may be ready to start using some bigger ones sex toys and explore!
That's why...
Anal sex has existed since ancient times, and will continue to exist for a very long time. But unlike then in this modern age we live in there are so many aids to reduce pain and increase pleasure. It is time to overcome certain taboos so that individuals and couples can safely practice anal sex. So no matter what kind of sex you're having, just be careful and keep your safety in mind. Sex at the end of the day is made for pleasure.