The difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm?
Orgasm – everyone wants it, but not everyone experiences it. Sexual pleasure for women is so complicated that even scientists still do not fully understand it. So don't feel bad if you haven't experienced it yourself, let alone understand the difference between a clitoral and G-spot orgasm.
There are generally two types of orgasms that women can experience. Vaginal and clitoral (G-spot) orgasm – but this is not a widely known fact. Every third woman has a problem achieving orgasm. Isn't that sad?
Let's discover together what orgasms are and what it feels like to have an orgasm. Let's also discover together how to experience orgasm in many different ways. Whether you're a man or a woman, this information could be crucial the next time you have sex.
So let's begin…
What is an orgasm?
Orgasms are a series of muscle contractions throughout the pelvic muscles or penis that also come with a surge of endorphins and other feel-good neurotransmitters. There may be ejaculation, but not always!
Orgasms are different for everyone. They vary in intensity, length, sensation and emotional involvement. Scientifically speaking, for women, orgasm is the release of all the muscles that are activated during sex. From here, you can feel a great satisfying wave of relief not only through your genitals, but throughout your entire body.
What does it feel like to have an orgasm?
For many people, when they have an orgasm, they feel their entire body releasing pleasure. When one experiences an orgasm, it can feel like being on top of a mountain that you really want to climb. Sometimes the feeling can even be unpleasant. And when you're at the top – it can get dark, your body can shake and you can't think about anything but how good you feel.
Once it's over, many people don't feel the need to continue. In fact, you may feel overstimulated and sore. Instead, you are completely relaxed and ready to go to sleep. This is due to the physical response and is related to the chemicals released during and after orgasm.
Let's look at the different types of orgasms and how to orgasm. But first let's look at how we define orgasms.
Clitoral vs. vaginal/G-spot.
A clitoral orgasm is defined as an orgasm that comes from external stimulation of the clitoris (regardless of penetration).
Vaginal orgasm/G-spot is defined as an orgasm that results from penetration alone.
So they are two different things, right? Wrong! It depends on which part of the clitoris you are stimulating.
The clitoris is actually much bigger than you thought. In fact, all penises start out as clitoris before they develop. That means there are many more pleasure zones than just that little button at the top. The shape of the clitoris resembles a wide inverted V and extends longer than the vaginal opening. In fact, only part of the clitoris is visible, which means that the rest that is not visible is responsible for penetrative orgasms.
You've probably all heard of that famous G-spot? It is actually part of your clitoris. The clitoris and the G-spot are actually part of the same tissue and organ – the G-spot is the rear end of the clitoris.
The clitoris and the penis are even made of the same tissue. But still, lucky you if you have a vagina because the clitoris has more pleasure nerves than any other organ! The clitoris has about 8.000 nerve endings, compared to the penis, which has about half that. However, if you are lucky enough to still have a foreskin, you have many more, over 20.000.
Here's the point: both orgasms are clitoral orgasms. The difference is only in which part of the clitoris is stimulated. But even though both orgasms are part of the same system, the feeling is completely different – and they are stimulated in a completely different way.
How to experience an orgasm?
Clitoral orgasms
Above all, remember that the purpose of sex and orgasm is to feel good. The goal is not just to reach orgasm and that's it. Second, find your clitoris. It's right below your vulva – the place where your vagina starts to split into labia. The clitoris is small but varies in size.
Once you've located your clitoris, decide what makes you feel the best. Rubbing the area generally with two fingers avoiding direct stimulation of the clitoris may appeal to you. Or maybe you want direct stimulation. In general, most women like circular movements because they are the most natural. The speed and intensity of pressure is up to you, so feel free to experiment with it.
If the natural lubrication gives you out and dries up, they are always there the lubricants. There is a huge range of lubrication products on the market, literally something for everyone. It all depends on your preferences.
Consistency is key to clitoral orgasm. So keep the stimulation going for as long as you can stand it. But our recommendation is to take small breaks and stimulate other areas if necessary. How long it takes depends entirely on your body, so just enjoy the process!
Vaginal / G-spot orgasms
It might sound strange, but the first thing you should do is urinate. This is because the G-spot is located near the bladder. And no, it doesn't mean that if you don't take this advice you will urinate during sex. It will simply be easier for you to concentrate on one sensation. By doing so, you increase your chances of an incredible vaginal orgasm.
Now, the next time you're comfortable and horny, before you have sex, find your G-spot first! Your G-spot is located about three to six centimeters on the front wall of your vagina. Place one or two fingers inside and bend forward. The G-spot has a rougher texture than the rest of the vagina. Now that you have this information you can locate it more easily. Keep your fingers bent and begin to imitate the "come here" movement with your fingers.
You may also feel a little sore. But you should feel "pleasant pain". You can use toys or finger vibrators that are safe for the body. Continue to stimulate that spot until you reach orgasm. Remember that your body will take as much time as it wants, so don't rush it.
Are your fingers getting tired? We've reviewed toys for G-spot stimulation and here are LoveGuru's favorite products for clitoral и vaginal/G-spot orgasms!
That's why...
Be patient with yourself, explore what makes you feel good, and have fun! Get started – anyone can have an orgasm, you just need to know how and be patient and persistent.
