You will agree that it is great that we live in a time where we have access to sex shops that sell beautiful – amazing toys and gadgets to spice up your sex life. When you think of a sex shop, you probably immediately think of vibrators, dildos or masturbators. But that's not all that such stores offer. One of the treasures that is not talked about enough is sex cubes. And if you're hearing about it for the first time sex cubes, the question automatically arises, what are and why should you use sex cubes? Well, let's find out together...
""After using sex cubes for the first time, I realized how fun, hot, often silly, and above all how wonderful foreplay can really be."
The number of dice is important
There is an unlimited supply of sex cubes on the market today. They can vary from erotic drawings of different positions to different areas of the house to perform the assigned sexual activities.
"What drew me to buy this particular set of sex dice was for two reasons: the first was that the dice glowed in the dark, and the second reason was because of the interesting words on the dice."
"The first cube had 'action words' such as; lick, suck, kiss and nibble. I didn't really know what snacking meant, but I'll get to that later! The second cube had different erogenous zones where you could perform the actions, from the nipples to the inner thighs. I can't tell you how many times I hoped to keep rolling the dice so they would show up on the inner thigh. The third cube had adjectives like rough, gentle, and even free choice."
Depending on how simple, complex, or descriptive you want your cubes to be, it all comes down to personal preference. So visit your favorite adult toy store and check out the different types of sex cubes which might be a good fit for you and your partner(s).
Many combinations will not make sense… at first.
"Remember I wasn't sure about the snacking? Yes, this leads to a common problem that my boyfriend and I kept running into, and that was a lot of the combinations that the dice created made absolutely no sense…at first. I think we had to get rid of the seriousness that we all carry with us during our daily activities."
When it comes to something as sensual and fun as sex, you have to look inside yourself and get rid of all seriousness and just have a little fun! So after you've rolled the dice a few times, you'll start getting creative and funny with them.
"An unforgettable example was a sensual nibbling of an ear. First, how do you snack? So secondly, how do you nibble an ear sensually??? You should have seen the look on my partner's face, he was so confused. Again, we had to get creative and eventually, nibbling led to the incorporation of sensual groping and squeezing."
At the end of the day, it's all about what you want and how you use the given words to play with your partner.
There will be laughs as there will be groans.
Be prepared to laugh at times and that's totally okay! This game is designed to not take sex too seriously, so you can laugh in a way that builds trust and comfort between you and your partner.
"When we started the game, my partner and I barely had a serious conversation. And it was all because of how uncomfortable we felt at first. But ten minutes later the laughter subsided and began to turn into sighs and groans. I think this happens spontaneously when the game is played creatively. I added a personal touch by tickling or massaging my partner while performing any sexual "task" to achieve a good balance of laughter and moaning.
Dice can be used as a great foreplay.
As many sex games suggest, this is a great foreplay game! Indeed, who would have thought that dice could help you in your bedroom endeavors?! Instead of the usual rubbing and touching before the actual sexual act, the cubes are a very nice refresher to the usual routine. Foreplay can and should be a long but enjoyable build up to the actual climax. A great way to get yourself and your partner in the mood is to play about ten rounds of the sex dice. The game can introduce different ways to warm up the bedroom.
"I found out other ways my partner liked to have his neck played. You and your partner will become professionals in no time in how many ways you can play with certain erogenous zones."
It is a great communication builder.
Generally, what we all hope to achieve beyond experiencing amazing orgasms is to become closer to the person we are with. Communication is key in any relationship, especially sexual. That's why using sex toys is a great way to explore what you and your partner like and want.
"This game taught me that I like my partner nibbling on my ears and neck."
The cubes are basically directions and suggestions and it depends on you how you will interpret and perform that "sexual service". This game also essentially encourages you to ask questions! Questions about how your partner wants something specific done. Or what could be done differently next time and what he liked about the game. This can lead to discovering new areas of your partner's body that you didn't know about before.
That's why...
Now since you know what they are sex cubes and why to use them, all you have to do is try them yourself! Try this game, I guarantee you will not only laugh, but also learn new ways to please your partner and yourself. Try them, love each other and understand all the benefits that you and your partner will get from a pair of dice. Enjoy!
