How to get a good sensual massage?
Giving your partner a sensual massage is a wonderful way to explore physical and emotional intimacy. It's a pretty easy way to spoil your partner. Not only will they enjoy the soothing and sensual touch of your hands as they travel over their body, but you will have the pleasure of learning their favorite spots. Even get them so excited that they'll long to thank you properly.
It may seem a little intimidating at first to create this sexy, cozy atmosphere for the first time, but don't be afraid. All you need is a desire to discover how to give a sensual massage that both you and your partner will enjoy.
That's why here are our best tips on how to become a master of erotic massage. So good that your partner will be begging for it again and again.
Sensual massages start with mood
Dim the lights, light the candles and let the magic begin.
Bright lights can be a huge mood killer. Sometimes it's hard to feel sexy in the wrong lighting. Try low ambient light. Or move the lamp to another part of the room (even on the floor) to create a comfortable darkness in which you can relax.
Candles can be enough lighting and add pure romance to your partner's massage. Just watch out for overpowering smells, fire hazards and too much heat coming off them.
Speaking of heat – set the thermostat to the perfect temperature in advance so you have time to adjust. You and your partner probably won't be wearing clothes, and it wouldn't be advisable to reach for a blanket halfway through.
Finally, the playlist is everything. You can opt for sounds on the more relaxing side, such as rainforest sounds or classical music. You can also choose a sexy playlist or your partner's favorite slow songs.
Dress for an erotic mood
Everyone feels beautiful and has more confidence when they look sexy. So wear your favorite sexy lingerie to exude confidence. Choose to wear a short black silk dress, lace bra and panties or nothing at all. Ahead of you is sure to be an evening of pleasures as you give your partner a sensual and erotic massage.
Use warm oil for a sensual massage
Massage oils make it easier for your hands to glide over your partner's body. There is nothing worse than being naked and having someone put cold lotion or massage oil on your back. To avoid this, first warm the oil in your hands.
Prevent cold shock with the help of massage oil with a warming effect while giving a massage. You can apply this oil directly to your partner's back without fear of startling them. This oil will warm wherever you choose to touch your partner. They will surely love to feel your warm hands glide over their entire body with ease as you use the massage oil.
Explore new areas with a sensual massage
Erotic massage is the perfect time for adventure and something new. If your partner has asked you to try something or you've been curious if he's up to something, try to gently "test the waters" and make this potential new desire come true.
One place that comes to mind – their feet! If you have never had or received a foot massage, it is a truly enlightening experience. Here, you can ease the tension you may have built up during a long day at work or a tough workout, while discovering how sexy someone touching your feet can feel.
If you're interested in what they think or want to tease them about what's next, try sending them pictures of your feet a few hours beforehand to spark a little curiosity. Or, if you're not sure how to give a foot massage and make it sexy, explore some of FeetFinder's foot pictures and videos to get ideas. You may want to explore further!
Use vibrators
If you have vibrators, they can easily be used during a massage to take your game from good to amazing. The best vibrators to use during a massage are bullet vibrators. They are small enough to fit one in each hand. When massaging your partner's back or other body parts, place one bullet vibrator in each hand. They will love the erotic and pulsating sensations this provides. And you? You will love to watch them squirm under your arms and moan at your touch.
To summarize…
The power of touch is so intense that you and your partner can reach new levels of intimacy with just a simple, relaxing and erotic massage. It's an easy way to care for your partner after a long day or before a long, long night.
Learning how to give a good sensual massage comes in a moment. So trust your instincts and don't be afraid to ask your partner what he likes.
