Sex is much more than inside out, inside out and that's it.
You can have wonderful and naughty experiences with superficial acquaintances, and deep and honest experiences with someone you love. And you are yourself. One is not more true than the other. But you may want to search your heart. The presence. Intimacy. Give yourself time to enjoy, discover and feel.
In this blog we will give you some tips and tricks to increase intimacy for you and your partner.
Smell, taste, hear, see and touch
We are naturally equipped with five senses. You probably already know them. You must have bitten into a lemon and experienced how the acid causes the gums to contract. Maybe you've even smelled a blooming lilac on a spring day and enjoyed how that scent can trigger memories of summer, sunshine, and childhood innocence. Perhaps you already have a bedroom blind and have played with how removing the sense of sight can intensify the remaining senses. All the senses can be activated or blocked when you and your partner take the time to pamper each other, and this can lead to many wonderful experiences.
Is sensual play just for foreplay?
Foreplay, you say? Foreplay is often a term we use when warming up.
For many years it was thought that foreplay was there to prepare a man and a woman for real sex – namely penetration. Fortunately, that view has been challenged. First, the shared perception of intimate relationships is no longer reserved for a man with a woman. We all know that construction can look many different ways. As we explained, sex is much more than just penetration. We can easily leave foreplay in the vocabulary, as long as we share the view that it is not just a warm-up, but an extension of sex and pleasure. Then we set it in place. And just to answer our question – No, sensory play is not just for foreplay. You can play with your senses during all parts of sex, and on all shelves there is free choice in terms of where you want to start and end.
The gentle version
Now we will take a closer look at how you can awaken the senses in a gentle and sensual way. You may like this approach best if you don't have much experience with sex toys and erotic accessories. The gentle sensual game is also ideal for those of you who focus on the connection with your partner, the slowness and communication of the love that exists between you.
Blindfolds
It's an innocent piece of accessory that can do wonders for a game. You can put it yourself the blindfold and allow your partner to explore your body You can also give your partner the same turn. All kisses, pats, caresses, sweets and caresses will feel extra intense because the sense of sight is blocked.
Spring feather
Another relatively innocent and sometimes underrated sex toy. You can conveniently combine a small feather and let soft strokes caress your partner's bare skin. Get to work curiously. Maybe your partner has an erogenous zone that you haven't discovered yet? Try letting the feather wander to new places. The knees, inside of the wrist, inner thighs, collarbones and along the spine can cause small hairs to stand up the right way.
Massage
Giving or receiving a massage can be a wonderful and sensual experience, and there is a sea of different massage oils for that. They can be completely neutral in their scent, but there is also the option of irritating the nostrils with aromas such as vanilla, jasmine and tropical fruits. Some oils are exclusively intended for massaging the outside of the body, but there are also variants, which can be used for massaging and pampering the genitals both externally and internally. There is also an option to use the massage candle, which can also have a seductive smell. Therefore, the sense of touch and smell are also in question.
Flavored lubricant
If you need to pamper your sense of taste, it is obvious to spice up the intimate moment with sparkling wine, sweet strawberries, dark chocolate or enjoy the unique taste of the body. It is also an option to spice up the experience with flavored lubricant. Not that there is anything wrong with your body's natural taste – absolutely not. Compare that to always choosing vanilla for an ice cream cone. If one day you get a chocolate craving, there's nothing wrong with vanilla – chocolate is just delicious too!
Playing with temperatures
Bringing cooling or warming elements into play can really stimulate the senses. You can go to the ice cube tray and find little frozen surprises, which are especially good for cool but sassy excitement during oral sex. You can let the cold drops fall on your genitals, inner thighs and nipples until your body shivers with joy. Try blowing on cool, damp skin as well. The feel and thought of your lips up close can be exciting for the lucky recipient. You can also choose sex toys made of glass, which can be placed in the refrigerator or in a warm water bath before use to make the sensation extra exciting.
Crazy version
Ask if there are also sex toys for sensual play for those of you who want a little more spice. That's why we're now delving into products that stimulate the senses in perhaps entirely new and wacky ways.
Pinwheels
The roller can be used in the same way as the pad, but instead of gentle strokes, it is the small pointed spikes that move across the skin. It's entirely up to you (and your partner, of course) how hard or gently to roll the spikes over the body. Regardless of the intensity, the skin and senses come alive in an ultra-stimulating way.
Clamps
Squeezing can be both stimulating, decorative and painful. The most famous clamps are those that can be use on the nipples. Here you can adjust how tight they should sit and enjoy the sweet pain. When the clamp is removed and blood flows to the area again, the nipples will feel extra sensitive and receptive to caressing. There are also clamps that can be placed on the clitoris or the scrotum, so there is plenty of room for experimentation.
Slaps
Some may be tempted to think that slapping or hitting is reserved for those who practice BDSM. But as with many things, you can adjust the spanking to just the level that suits you and your partner. And sound, dear reader, can be exciting in itself. On the other hand, the flogger is perfect for soft and gentle strokes. You can pass long soft movements over your partner's body and genitals in a tickling and tickling way.
Electric game
Playing with electricity – sounds dangerous!
I can really understand that if you think about it. But if you carefully use electro-sex toys and follow the instructions, then many sensual experiences await you. Electrical impulses can trigger and stimulate you with completely different sensations than, for example, touch and vibration.
Enjoy
I hope you have been inspired for new sensory experiences in ways known or unknown.
Enjoy!