If you're struggling to achieve a powerful orgasm with your partner, there's a good chance the problem isn't in you. The problem is most likely the position or type of stimulation. That's why in this blog we will talk about 5 best sex positions for female pleasure.
According to some statistics, 1 out of 3 women have problems achieving orgasm during sex. As many as 80% of women have difficulty achieving orgasm only from vaginal intercourse, and most are able to climax only with stimulation of the clitoris.
Every body is different, and masturbation is the perfect way to explore your body and learn what brings you to the edge of ultimate pleasure. Then you can take what you've learned into the bedroom.
The key to conveying this new information in the bedroom is by heating up the atmosphere with new positions that stimulate the right points. Some can even satisfy your G-spot and clitoris at the same time.
Here are some sex positions that can increase your chances of reaching orgasm, because sex should always be orgasmic!
The best G-spot position
While lying on your back, try to place your legs up and over your partner's shoulders. This tightens your vaginal muscles, increasing sensation and allowing your partner easy access to your G-spot. Tightening your vagina is also a plus for your partner!
Do you think to yourself that you don't live in a flexible, gymnastic body? Don't worry, you can still do it! Just bend your knees to give your leg muscles a little break.
The further your partner's torso reaches your body, the deeper the penetration feels. You will feel his penis hitting your g-spot and adjust to make sure the sensation is just right to increase your chances of an amazing orgasm!
Doggy Style for deep penetration
This is a classic. Although most people think of this as a "guy position" because there is little eye and body contact and a lot of thrusting – this pose can be incredibly pleasurable for the person on the bottom when done correctly.
Move your bodies until you feel your partner hitting your G-spot. As your partner hits your G-spot from behind, there's easy access to stimulate your clitoris, speeding up your orgasm!
Try folding your arms and placing your face on the bed for deeper stimulation. Remember to keep your back arched for maximum pleasure.
For another good doggy style pose – kneel on the bed and have your partner stand on the side. This gives them more control; which can mean faster, deeper and stronger strokes – if that's something you enjoy!
Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl
YOU decide what happens in this position.
This position is similar to what is called twerking as a dance. Maybe you don't really do it well or you don't have "enough" butt, but the rotation and speed of your hips really makes a difference to your pleasure here. It is also a great exercise.
This pose is also a plus for your partner, as they can watch the action, which is a huge turn-on for them (and maybe you!).
Even a simple cowgirl pose can be beneficial to YOUR orgasm. The trick is to stay up, not forward. It might be a little awkward at first because you don't know where to look. Or you don't want your new partner to see your face when you have an orgasm. But once you get past those body insecurities, it's great for your pleasure.
Lean back on your feet like you're in a crouching frog position and do it exactly how you want, because you're in control!
Do the hottest missionary position
Here is a basic position that you may not believe is a wonderful position just for you.
Changing the position of the legs can feel much better than the standing missionary position. For many women, the further apart your legs are, the better they feel because their partner can get deeper penetration. You can even bend your knees and pull them towards you to bring your g-spot closer to their member. If you want a tighter feel, you can press your legs closer together and get a tight and pinching feeling.
Downward dog
This is our personal favorite. Like any rear position, downward dog intensifies vaginal pleasure and hits your G-spot perfectly.
Although a pillow is not required for this position, it can be used to support your body and provide more support. (If you don't want back pain the next day, we suggest using a pillow!)
This pose is great because you can do it in any mood. To begin, simply lie flat on the bed. If you want to be up close, personal and affectionate, have your partner lie on their back. Even soft and gentle thrusts increase the likelihood of orgasm with this pose.
On the other hand, if you like rough sex, this pose can be just as good. When your partner hovers over you as you thrust, he can easily put his hand over your mouth or neck and can pull your hair back to level with your head, causing your back to arch more and increase the stimulation of The G-spot.
The best part about this pose is that when your partner leans their body against yours, gentle kisses and nibbles on the neck or whispers in the ear can really lift the mood.
For the end…
We hope these tips on the best sex positions for female pleasure will take you into the amazing world of orgasms. Remember that masturbation is key. If you don't already have one, you may want to invest in a quality one vibrator. Usually the first vibrator really helps you discover what you like and will teach you how to master orgasm during sex.